The value proposition of your intuition

Using your intuition requires self worth.  It requires you to place value on yourself greater and more powerful than titles, status, or money.

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Listening to the messages of your intution can be a bit uncomfortable. You push up against limiting beliefs and ideas such as “you’re wrong, that’s not true, follow the program to be safe,” and the list goes on in ways you were taught to trust something outside of yourself. Listening to your intuition was shut down and you may have disconnected from it.

Now with this understanding, taking action to use your intuition will challenge you. You’ll learn to trust yourself, to listen and feel your own truth and inner wisdom. You’ll uncover deep pearls to connect and string together to move your life forward in miraculous ways.

How do I know?

Using your intuition requires self worth. It requires you to place value on yourself greater and more powerful than titles, status, or money.

To begin using your intuition let’s start by having you ask yourself questions and journal. Open to the answers you receive. They say prayer is asking and mediating is receiving, so here goes.

Here are questions to ask:

1. What do I need to know see or feel in this situation? What ever the situation is you want to move beyond. Write down the answers that come through you. Just allow them to flow- feelings, even if pain, injustice, or sorrow. Write out what comes through without attachment or judgement. This is important. You see, the reason you shut off your intuition was because of what you felt, knew or saw, which others disapproved of, discredited you for. In order to keep yourself safe and loved you gave up your intuition.

These are small steps. Write and allow.

As you allow, you open flow. Flow is the natural state of movement, abundance and exchange. Once you notice and have an awareness to the answers, with consistency give them space to show up and write the words feelings, actions and answers.

2. What is an action I can take, that holds myself powerful, accountable and able to commit to myself- my own worth, actually a new level of adultdhood?

A small actionable step. Be clear on how you are showing up, challenging yourself to grow. Clear that it pushes the status quo. Trust yourself. Trust your intuition. It is a process. A process where you may fall, and pick yourself up, and get stronger with each action. This is the beauty of true authentic intuition. The more practice the better you become and the greater you can introduce more of what you want into your life.

3. What do I need to let go of in order to create the change I want and what is it time to implement to gain the results I want?

Letting go may be a belief system, a way of acting, such as not holding a boundary or ignoring your eating habits. What you will need to implement is powerful, consistent, self trusting actions and habits. Again small actionable steps.

Once you have these questions asked and answers, pay attention, use focus and write your experiences. See and understand what is going on, as experiences which are limiting you and disrupting your flow. With each small action, with each one that creates the new, challenges the status quo, or your fears you open to flow- to your connection to your Highest Power, the Universe, Higher Self, Source- your own energetic imprint, your true identity.

This is Your Gift for you to share with the world. Your resources flow, play and move through here.

Illuminating the riches within,

Monica Heiz

Priestess of Passion

516-443-8882

How do you create lasting soul filling transformation and what benefits does it bring you?

What exactly is Transformation and a  Safe Space?

In this context a safe space is a place where a woman or a man is free to feel their feelings. As the old systems fall away of false power or misuse of power, control or compartmentalizing. Within this space, there is a force created to release judgments, shame, old identities and beliefs which had been stored in the body. Stored in the body to protect one’s self from the pain of being seen, hear and expressing one’s own truth.

These old wounds stemmed from the past, from family, culture, beliefs and an environment set in motion to conquer and divide. Now, to have the peace, freedom and happiness you desire and need to find and define your own success, health and happiness these feeling need an outlet a way to be expressed.

Transformation happens in this safe space. Just like The safe space of a cocoon for a caterpillar to transform into a butterfly,  a piece of coal acts as a safe space for a diamond to be transformed through pressure and the shell of an is the safe space the oyster provides a pearl to be formed with a parasite or sand.

Notice, there is pressure or a liquid state in order to transform, just as our emotions are represented by water. There is a release which occurs for transformation.

This safe space allows for you to shine as you release limiting beliefs, feelings and emotions which have held you in fear, anger, despair and pain, to name a few.

Now a safe space is an incubator. They’re often used in new business to protect the project before it’s released. In transformation, those of us who have grounded, found depth within ourselves, to allow our emotions to flow, stand firm and tall. We are bright and bold.

We wear our hearts on our sleeve.

What makes us unique as space holders is, we were to big, to bright, to passionate in something other than the system which had been created. We held steadfast to our hearts.

As healers, shamans, priestesses, oracles, alchemists, the space we hold allows for the expansion of energy~ e~motions, energy in motion.

You see, your energy when it’s contracted or contracting by nature is getting smaller, not bigger, not fuller, or more life. When your energy expands you are getting bigger, brighter, fuller and more life moves through you. Your life force, your personal power.

This is the space we hold. Why? Because as women, we are designed to let go, heal, restore, repair and bring to balance. We are designed to expand, flow and surrender~ let go and we are skilled at allowing others to feel and experience these shifts, we have embraced on our journey.

Within a safe space, you find emotional freedom.

Within a safe space you reclaim your personal power.

Within a safe space you find what you need, and allow your energy to rise up and meet it.

Illuminating the riches within

Monica Heiz

Priestess of Passion

516-443-8882

There’s a whole other level to commitment.

There’s a whole other level to commitment

It asks to look at things from another perspective.

It shifts the focus or idea of purpose from a push and “not giving up” mentality and action to, what am I not seeing, what is my ability to take actions from a new place, to shift my views and beliefs of my own way of strategizing and implementing for outcomes.

This level of commitment has no fears. This level of commitment would walk away, that’s right walk away to place attention on building relationships, health and contribution without the idea of a power outside of self.

This level of commitment would walk away, that’s right walk away to place attention on building relationships, health and contribution without the idea of a power outside of self.

This commitment shows up as self reliance and, contribution by others creating a giving and receiving that’s in balance and harmony of your desired outcome.

It builds and creates. This level of commitment finds joy, pleasure and passion, and it shows up with purposes in connections.

Often commitment has places focus only on “I must do this to achieve that”. The level of commitment I’m describing, operates by setting goals, intentions, desires, visions, however you want to define them, taking necessary actions and reviewing the results. If the results are not connecting to your desired outcome, you may be going about your goal and vision from the wrong perspective, nothing to do with your ability to commit and follow through. Pushing harder is not always the solution. Getting out of your environment works. Getting out of your environment is an incredible way to see how others work towards or achieve what you desire. It gives you a fresh perspective and a way to go about your commitment.

Commitment has an emotional component to it. Committing to something, is personal. It links you to what you desire, what you feel is important to you. Not following through, not completing the commitment disturbs your peace of mind and can interfere with your relationships, professional and personal.

Embrace your emotions.

Embrace your desire “for” your commitment. In this, you allow flow to move through you, with a sense of right action and purpose.

Your needs, your push will self defeat you, by believing this is the way to commitment. And honestly, subconsciously our “needs” have been linked, programmed to safety security and basic survival needs. In a way, going about your commitments from this emotion of need you’ll gravitated towards relationships and connection in this undercurrent of emotions, unaware of how to maintain your own mastery of commitment, free of the survival pattern.

In this new space and open perspective of commitment you are inviting and welcoming a new environment and way to be intimate with commitment. You thrive in ways beyond the confines of pushing through your commitments to gain success.

You master it.

Illuminating the riches within

Monica Heiz

Priestess of Passion

516-443-8882

The difference with Spirituality from Traditional Education

Creating and implementing Spirituality is very much like going to school and then applying what you’ve learned out in the everyday world. Where some people view Spirituality and everyday living, career, work, family, fitness, finances as separate, they are not.

Learning to understand Spirituality takes a practice, discipline and a process. The difference with Spirituality from traditional education is, Spirituality has you uncover, reveal and bring to light aspects of you, aspects of life and living which had been hidden from you, missing, actually moved from your path of growth. It’s an uncovering of personal truths, that feel good, add value to your life and bring to you love, abundance which in turn builds and creates success, happiness and fulfillment. Just as the tree, which can bear fruits of its labor, so too can you, when understanding this natural order.

Places in your life where you feel drained, depleted, stuck, stagnant, repeating cycles and patterns, unstable, these are ways Spirituality provides an influence, greater awareness and the tools and skills to repair, restore and rebalance you, your life and the world you live in.

Spirituality has a foundation in the natural order of things, growth, expansion, harvest. A birth, death, rebirth cycle that is the ebbs and flows of life.

What I find throws people off the track with Spirituality is not having a foundation to understand the principles, practices and how to apply them without creating disruption in one’s own life.

It requires Endings that with grace flow into New Beginnings.

So how does one go about implementing Spirituality without disrupting their life, work and foundation, while choosing to grow, expand and create the changes they desire?

I believe the first thing is understanding your own foundation, your strengths. Usually strengths revolve around career/work, fitness/health, home/family, relationship/ connection in community, things in your life that create stability. For me, my strength has revolved around health and fitness. Health and fitness has always provided me a stable ground to build on, trust in myself and settle in.

Spirituality involves your relationship and connection to yourself in many ways, from your inner child, masculine & feminine to the environment you find yourself in and the people you’re around.

Holding and understanding your foundation, which is the root chakra through the heart chakra, can remove alot of stress in your life over the struggle and contemplation of what to do next.

As you learn the ebbs and flows, cycles and the ending into new beginnings, you can navigate your life with greater ease. You can enjoy your beloved with deeper and greater love, and you can show up more powerfully and fully as the man or woman you desire to be.

You see with Spirituality, there is no reward, or something to earn. There is no achievement or need to look good or get. With Spirituality you have alignment, the place where your true destiny, your path coincides with the choices, actions, decision and, Trust & Faith you hold.

This give you, the essence of your truth and desires a place, a space to show up. You see, it’s not rewards, recognition, or achievement you truly desire. What you desire is the Truth of you, your desires and your path of excellence and contribution to be expressed to come into your life, to come alive through you.

Spirituality in the presence of practice brings this to you. It’s grounded in your truth and nourished and nurtured by your thoughts actions and beliefs. It comes to light, through the dark and unknown with the ability to apply your skills and tools, your practices to the aspects of you which have been buried, hidden and out of alignment. The ones as I mentioned, you struggle with.

In this you find, happiness, health, healing, vitality, prosperity, joy, pleasure, and all of the aspects of you, you believed were missing. You believed you needed to find or get outside of yourself or didn’t know how to grow and tend to.

Spirituality when implemented into your everyday life offers you this gift. This gift of transformation, of the fruits of your labor, from pain to pleasure, from sadness/despair to joy, from poor to wealth. To see the world through the lens of growth.

Illuminating the riches within

Monica Heiz

Priestess of Passion

Www.priestessofpassion.com

This is for you women. You women who have it all, or want it all.

This is for you women. You women who have it all, or want it all.

Working In A fabulous career can be demanding and rewarding. Being in a marriage has it’s ups and downs. Raising children can be challenging and joyful.

Each of these areas of your life bring about polarity. The key is navigating and coordinating the polarity so it ebbs and flows, and dances. Dances in harmony with the joy & pleasure in your life.

That’s right Pleasure in your life. You stepped into a career ambitious, married the love of your life and created the miracle of life. You deserve pleasure.

The feeling and experience of pleasure. It’s not so fleeting moments or experiences found in a vacation, a workout a green juice or a girls night out. Those fall short of the true level of pleasure your heart is quenching for. Yes, your heart. The part of you that loves so big, there is no job, task, or other persons need to small your not willing to step in for.

Your pleasures matter, from the inside out. You see you can’t buy pleasure. It’s not found in the handbag, the car, or the shoes. It’s found through your own inner knowing, and commitments toward your hearts desires. The place between the polarity where you show up and settle in. Where you ask for support and trust in the process, allowing receiving as you surrender to your truth. The depth with you that desires, passion, intensity, focus, sensuality and this incredible freedom to express yourself all of you. Whether in the bedroom or the boardroom, this lioness, who is the master of her domain with beauty grace, elegance and class. Unapologetically perfect in her choice to live free while maintaining it all. A career, a great relationships and raising her children.

This is a new breed of women. Why? Because our generation has better access to our natural skills. We have learned how to stand firm, svelt and confident while detaching from an outcome. We know how to speak with the men while owning our own feminine spotlight, and yes, she; you, deserve the spotlight.

Today, we as women can identify having it all takes work and we’re willing to do it. Now with that checked off the list, pleasure is the piece where we bridge what we have done and accomplished with what is possible for us and, how we manage, strategize and move the pieces on our boards for more pleasure and joy.

A few delicious facts about pleasure;

1. It asks you to expand. You must grow, stretch and open into the next level. It comes through a version of success as birth, and the love factor is the same, the radiant self love you give to yourself. Pleasure is felt through self acceptance and surrender

2. Pleasure is a visceral experience through a series of intuitive guidance, inner knowing, and a feeling that takes your breath away at the delight. It asks you to slow down, turn in, ignite your inner desire, with focus and attention act, action from your place of power your creative sacral womb and your heart. It speaks from seduction and leaves a trace of intoxication.

3. Pleasure, when in your flow, will make your head spin so fast in sheer ecstasy, you’ll need assistance, help, support which can also be the feminine way of being, open, ready to receive, in intimacy with her partner through sex, even or especially when it feels or looks like you must take control.  It’s this support, help, assistance, which is surrender. Surrender to the pleasure , to being so practical and luxurious. Surrender to the polarity. Allow your lover to see this divine woman you are, the one you created who has it all. Allow him in, in a way that reveals every ounce of you to let go release and settle into the next level of you.

You are a Divine Feminine Woman, and you are here to Have it all and lead the next generation of young woman how it’s done.

Priestess of Passion

Illuminating the riches within

Monica Heiz

516-443-8882

Www.priestessofpassion.com

Owning your Identity

The power of your 2nd chakra, Owning your identity

The 2nd chakra represents either side of the spectrum, pain or pleasure. It is linked to lack and scarcity or abundance and prosperity. It represents your identity within the world and your relationship to the resources that nourish and nurture, money, food and sex.

It is often modeled, imprinted and developed based on your family systems, their beliefs habits and patterns.

Where lack and scarcity bring upon fear of unworthy, neediness, not enough, hiding, self judgment, hopeless, and a host negative feelings and emotions.

Abundance and prosperity brings with it clarity, focus, a sense of peace, trust and more than enough. It speaks of owning your own identity around your basic needs, money, food, sex.

These 2 sides of the spectrum are designed to have movement~ e-motion, energy in motion. Therefore when you are caught in the current, the flow of emotions you can see, feel and turn your emotions into a powerful transformer of circumstances. Where there was lack and scarcity, identify the relationship, the trigger, the point you feel and how you describe the feeling. From here, begin a process to redefine the feeling. Confront fears, the basis for holding negative feelings and emotions. Take actions that challenge you, scare you and trust, that transforms your feeling quick, it’s an accomplishment, and says yes I can and I do.

Abundance and prosperity is meant to be shared. It’s meant to flow, that’s the true nature of the 2nd chakra when healthy and balanced. You flow, your resources flow freely meaning no negative charge to hold them stuck and stagnant.

2nd chakra is how we relate to our emotions and feelings and how we can flow in the world, our resources and relationships. If you find you get a bit stuck or unsure, find trust, step forward, find pleasure and joy and act. Often the simplicity of giving gets you unstuck. Giving from a positive emotion, no attachment, this is what it means to give freely, non attachment.

Learning to navigate your 2nd chakra will give you a plan of action. It identifies your feelings and emotions and directs you, without attachment, to where to transform and shift your interaction and energy. Energy meaning thoughts, feelings and actions, your beliefs. Once again, often the beliefs were planted by family patterns. As you look, and see, as you decide you want a different outcome, feeling, belief you begin to feel and act from that place.

It begins with giving. With opening up your heart, with finding trust in yourself and freely giving with passion and self love.

It’s where you own your identity. Who you are in the world

It’s a beautiful chakra to have spinning and moving healthy and clear. Enjoy the process

Illuminating the riches within

Monica Heiz

Priestess of Passion

516-443-8882

Trust The true power you hold within

Trust

Trust is an interesting topic. I believe we’ve been taught, programmed and accepted that trust comes from outside of self, or even put into another power, a higher power.

Yet, there is so much beauty, Self Love and understanding of Self when one places trust in their own hands.

Here is how I understand trust.

It’s a relationship with yourself from your first, second and third chakras. First chakra relates to safety security and place of home. Second chakra relates to pleasure, joy, community, sense of belonging. It relates to your connection to the outer world through your senses. And, third chakra relates to personal power, your own sense of value and worth.

If your first and second chakras are in relationship to how we need each other in a way for survival, what does the model of needing each other look like for thriving? And if personal power is about self worth, how do you choose to show up valuing yourself.

Trust is a relationship you have with yourself. Your ability to know the ground beneath you, your foundation of safety and security, the way you provide for yourself, the way you honor yourself and the way you value and receive your joy and pleasure, this is based on your Self. The self of you that is unshakeable because of the faith and trust you have in who you are and your own personal intimate relationship with Source. Your connection to the ground below you and the sky above you. Ultimately the currency of Self Love, the currency of trust in Self and your Divine Beingness.

Trust holds the power within you. Trust speaks from your foundation of safety and security. You know you are safe, for your truth and your alignment, your integrity are in relationship with how you feel. Yes, how you feel about yourself.

That’s right, feeling. Do you have self love? Do you honor your word? Do you value yourself? Do you find no need to be right, to judge, to control or get anything? Your feelings of self control, a place of freedom, peace, pleasure and joy is the process through which trust comes through.

What I am saying is, when in the feelings, abundant with who you are, through self control, freedom, peace, pleasure and joy, you gain, you earn trust within yourself. And, these feelings become effortless and easy when you are in your truth. From your truth, you trust.

So this is different than trust outside of self. Trust outside of self looks to others, for others to help, for others to be held with some accountability or responsibility. Trust outside of self will find safe ways, things that have some sort of known, comfort or outside authority. Trust outside of self wants to have a proven system or plan, yet, that plan or system may not match your own inner light, being and self. Therefore, if this proven plan or system does not work for you, when in the community, group or tribe, it affects your Trust in self. It makes you wrong. It makes you wrong rather than looking at the perspective that You Are Not Trusting Yourself.

So what if today, you looked at all the ways you can trust yourself. All the ways you can listen to what makes you feel joy, pleasure, self control, freedom and peace. And look at all the things that you can question your own trust. Is it really your trust in yourself or are you choosing to trust a belief and idea outside of yourself.

There is a place to fit into community and to have safety and security. There is also a way to listen and feel from within your own truth, your own power, your light. And when you do, it opens the gates to the beauty and wealth, of Self Love and Currency of Divine Truth, your own inner knowing, where all things move through you.

Illuminating the riches within

Monica Heiz

Priestess of Passion

516-443-8882